OK, It just REALLY annoys me.
**Let me preface by saying that I have no particular views on marriage and to each their own – this post is about a *specific type* of woman who wants marriage/commitment but has an immature and subversive approach to attempt at getting it.
As a woman in my early 30s I see this a LOT from female friends and colleagues and relatives – they have been with their boyfriend for X number of years, live together and act hurt and personally victimised that he hasn’t proposed yet despite never having discussed it openly and I’m *so sick* of pretending I care and having to say “ooh poor you” because anything else I say will cast me as the demon of internalised misogyny
These women need to get their heads out of their asses and be honest with their partners and themselves, like they can’t act hurt and betrayed when they don’t get a proposal after living with a guy for *years*, playing house and pretending they don’t have feeling and everything is cool and casual and they’re totally easygoing and not at all like *those* intense chicks desperate to get down the aisle.
Like what do they have to loose by having a frank conversation about expectations? Either they will learn that they are fundamentally incompatible and move on, or not, why desperately cling to someone in the hopes they’ll change their ways?
It makes my blood boil, so many women act like they’re being personally victimised by man-children who won’t commit and I’m like, girl you picked them and enabled them for years, like…you test drove a Honda, bought a Honda and are now upset it’s not magically a porsche? Grow up.