I hate how having sex for enjoyment is stigmatized

I hate that most people act like the only reasoning for sex should be to bear children. Sometimes I want to have sex to relieve stress, to physically connect with my partner, or simply because it feels good. Whenever people say “Just wear condoms, use birth control” in response to not wanting kids, I laugh because all of my mother’s children, including myself, are products of birth control and/or condoms. I was the implant, one of my brothers was from the pill and my other brother was from the shot. Accidents happen, so the fact that people are forced to give birth to and raise children because they didn’t want to give up sex or calculate how they do it carefully enough is a dystopian nightmare come to life, in my opinion.

Edit: I meant to add that the ability of choice for permanent birth control would lower the amount of miserable parents, children in foster care, unprofessional procedures, deaths of children from parents who don’t want children, deaths of women from partners who don’t want children, imprisonment of people who become pregnant and try to terminate it before it’s too late etc

I hate how having sex for enjoyment is stigmatized